"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlmostThere!

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I never lived with a female before, but I know it's probably a great thing if you love her. I'm curious to know how does a relationship come to that point? What's the motivation behind it and how should/does it be decided?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDanny

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For me it just sort of happened. We were spending almost every night together at that point at one of our places anyways, I was buying a new house, her lease was ending too. So yeah she just moved in with me, turns out it was WAY to early but C'est la vie.
 
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Sandow

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Don't do it!!

After your done doing it, and you guys part ways hating each other and thinking that was the worst idea ever...

Don't say I didn't warn you.
 
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rocksoff

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Living with a chick is a drag man.....After youre done fvcking her youll just want her to dissapear, They make the bathroom gross as fvck, I lived with a girl that I "loved" for about a year ,and I can pretty much promise youll want her gone after a short period of time.....just live with some homies and invite girls over to get down,its Alot funner
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thecurtainfalls

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Sandow's right, I'm a survivor of a live in relationship with my (now) ex. I would never ever do that again with a girl I wasn't married to, and because of this experience I do not want to get married for a much longer while than I would have originally thought.
 
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