"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AlmostThere!

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I never lived with a female before, but I know it's probably a great thing if you love her. I'm curious to know how does a relationship come to that point? What's the motivation behind it and how should/does it be decided?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJDanny

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For me it just sort of happened. We were spending almost every night together at that point at one of our places anyways, I was buying a new house, her lease was ending too. So yeah she just moved in with me, turns out it was WAY to early but C'est la vie.
 
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Sandow

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Don't do it!!

After your done doing it, and you guys part ways hating each other and thinking that was the worst idea ever...

Don't say I didn't warn you.
 
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rocksoff

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Living with a chick is a drag man.....After youre done fvcking her youll just want her to dissapear, They make the bathroom gross as fvck, I lived with a girl that I "loved" for about a year ,and I can pretty much promise youll want her gone after a short period of time.....just live with some homies and invite girls over to get down,its Alot funner
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thecurtainfalls

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Sandow's right, I'm a survivor of a live in relationship with my (now) ex. I would never ever do that again with a girl I wasn't married to, and because of this experience I do not want to get married for a much longer while than I would have originally thought.
 
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