penkitten
Master Don Juan
sunday night chat topic:
Spring Fever- Get off your ASS and get in shape!
tonight!
Spring Fever- Get off your ASS and get in shape!
tonight!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Live SoSuave Chat
- Thread starter RedPill
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
Why create topics if it's not going to be discussed? I've noticed that the trend is to have 10 or more different members having three different conversations going at the same time. It's confusing and a waste of time, imo. Last night, for example, the conversation turned into how to COOK MEAT. I think the topics are good, but I joined in last night preparing to talk about being physically active. I didn't want to share recipes for crissakes. That's what foodtv.com is for. I mean, it's not as if there's a "DJ" way to braise your steak. You can get that information anywhere. Don't clog up the live chat.
If this is how live chat is going to go, we should create TWO chat rooms: one designated for the chosen topic, and one designated as a "social lounge," if you will, to just shoot the breeze and talk about off-topic items. Too many people talking about off-topic shyt creates unnecessary lag in the chat room, which contributes to more chat confusion.
If this is how live chat is going to go, we should create TWO chat rooms: one designated for the chosen topic, and one designated as a "social lounge," if you will, to just shoot the breeze and talk about off-topic items. Too many people talking about off-topic shyt creates unnecessary lag in the chat room, which contributes to more chat confusion.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
last night alot of people were talking about work out routines and fitness but probably before you got in there, as many people were an hour or so early for chat last night.Magma said:
i think they began talking about food because someone asked what to eat to bulk up, and then others were asking particular food items that were good for you like is steak or chicken better for your health when you are doing such and such routines .
however, i was in and out and can not say exactly what all was said.
usually in any chat room, most people will stay on topic but you will always have someone that doesn't.
perhaps we could remind everyone to stay on topic during a topic discussion and when the discussion is over, everyone can chit chat again.
so far, everyone kinda takes turns suggesting topics that would be helpful to others. if you have a topic suggestion, either update the thread or shoot me a pm.
a few guys mentioned last night that they would love to come back to chat and help on fitness again, i will update everyone when i know more.
Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
Says I need an admin password?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
pm your email addy to me so i can send the inviteColin O'Brien said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
alright everyone...
tomorrow's sunday night chat will feature the topic of "laws of attraction"
i hope you all will come.
the chat will be at 6 pm so that more people can attend.
i will ask that everyone stay on topic during the discussion for about an hour, then when the topic finishes up, everyone is free to stay and discuss any other topics that they want to, and chit chat!
that way the members that are only there for the chat can leave when it is over.
come chime in with us!!
tomorrow's sunday night chat will feature the topic of "laws of attraction"
i hope you all will come.
the chat will be at 6 pm so that more people can attend.
i will ask that everyone stay on topic during the discussion for about an hour, then when the topic finishes up, everyone is free to stay and discuss any other topics that they want to, and chit chat!
that way the members that are only there for the chat can leave when it is over.
come chime in with us!!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come chime in
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
It's 8 pm EST here, and we're in chat talking about Law of Attraction and positive mental attitudes.
The thread title needs to at least have a date. Is there a live chat tonight? (Monday, April 14th) There should be because this thread title says "live sosuave chat: Tonight's topic:" I must have clicked on this thread at least 6-7 times now only to discover that "tonight" meant some other day already past.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MacAvoy
Banned
Well it gets bumped usually everytime there is a chat so at that time, technically it usually is tonight. However after 4-5 times, you think you'd learn.
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Originally it didn't say "tonight". That was modified a week or two ago.azanon said:
All organized "official" chats are on Sundays at 10pm EDT (-5 GMT). However, on occasion posters will use this thread to make an impromptu announcement that a discussion is taking place using the free chat room.
The chat room is open 24/7 to those who are registered to access it. penkitten is the admin and you'll need to win her over before she gives you a key to the room. (I hear she's into chocolate.)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
this sunday night's topic
4-20-08 10pm eastern
Paradox's How do women process regret?
lead by Paradox himself...
be there !
4-20-08 10pm eastern
Paradox's How do women process regret?
lead by Paradox himself...
be there !
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Hmmmmpenkitten said:
I agree with Iqqi here. Why is it so hard to believe that women think the same as men nowadays? Maybe in previous times when men and women lived completely different lives but nowadays the only difference in their lives is giving birth and bleeding every couple of weeks imo. Once you see the thought process behind women KNOWING they are the prize and always having men at their beck and call is it not understandable why they act the way they do?iqqi said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
I'll try to be there, eyes propped open with toothpicks like Bean.penkitten said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come get your chat on!!
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
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Tonight's chat is starting
Tonights topic:
The importance of intimacy and it's relationship with trust.
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
Courtesty of penkitten.
Join up and let's converse in real-time.
Tonights topic:
The importance of intimacy and it's relationship with trust.
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
Courtesty of penkitten.
Join up and let's converse in real-time.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump up the threadLovelyLady said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.