That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well schools almost over and I don't actually live in this area during the summer, so it shouldn't matter right? It's not like I really want a relationship with any of these girls anyway, and even if I did it would have to get cut off because schools ending.lebRambo said:Hey dude.
In answer to your general question: it only hurts to make your intentions (whatever they may be) known early on rather than later if you stand a good chance of scaring her off.
If its a common thing for people to hang in each others rooms at uni, then by all means have a go. If she is obviously gonna take this is as 'come to my room so we can fvck', then maybe have coffee first stud
But it is a good idea for a second or third date.