"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LIVE Chat Tonight
- Thread starter VladPatton
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
VladPatton said:
What's the topic? Or is it just a Saturday night circle jerk?
Has anyone ever joined the live chats before?
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Yep, Saturday night circle jerk.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump
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BeDJ
Guest
penkitten - yeah to your previous pm
Don't be a hoarder, clear some space.
Don't be a hoarder, clear some space.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
I'd hope this isn't on some Chat Roulette type of sh1t where dudes here are lathering themselves up in a frenzy on cam.
SS Live chat doesn't need sh1t getting too "live". LMAO.
SS Live chat doesn't need sh1t getting too "live". LMAO.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i never even saw this until now. sorry the pm box was full. i didnt even realize it. thank you for leading the chat that night. you rock!:rockon:BeginningDJ said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no cameras. aint nobody got time for that ! lolNaughty Ninja said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
when did the ninja dude get banned?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dedication
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 26, 2008
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I think less than a month back, the guy showed that he had too much time on his hands. I entered an SS chat a while back and he couldn't stop making fun of some 'packers' guy. Nothing intelligent came out of his mouth, i also believe that he has/had multiple accounts on SS and has chats with himself just to bump his own threads.penkitten said:
SageProduct and Naughty Ninja are the very same guy.
Maybe he is spending his time productive now, i know i'm not, because right now i'm replying to a total stranger
penkitten
Master Don Juan
oh goodness. I had no idea that the two posters were the same person.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
chat room is open!
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
Dedication said:I think less than a month back, the guy showed that he had too much time on his hands. I entered an SS chat a while back and he couldn't stop making fun of some 'packers' guy. Nothing intelligent came out of his mouth, i also believe that he has/had multiple accounts on SS and has chats with himself just to bump his own threads.
SageProduct and Naughty Ninja are the very same guy.
Maybe he is spending his time productive now, i know i'm not, because right now i'm replying to a total stranger
48 days till the season starts man!