"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
LIVE Chat Tonight
- Thread starter VladPatton
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
VladPatton said:
What's the topic? Or is it just a Saturday night circle jerk?
Has anyone ever joined the live chats before?
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Yep, Saturday night circle jerk.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump
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BeDJ
Guest
penkitten - yeah to your previous pm
Don't be a hoarder, clear some space.
Don't be a hoarder, clear some space.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
I'd hope this isn't on some Chat Roulette type of sh1t where dudes here are lathering themselves up in a frenzy on cam.
SS Live chat doesn't need sh1t getting too "live". LMAO.
SS Live chat doesn't need sh1t getting too "live". LMAO.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i never even saw this until now. sorry the pm box was full. i didnt even realize it. thank you for leading the chat that night. you rock!:rockon:BeginningDJ said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no cameras. aint nobody got time for that ! lolNaughty Ninja said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
when did the ninja dude get banned?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dedication
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 26, 2008
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I think less than a month back, the guy showed that he had too much time on his hands. I entered an SS chat a while back and he couldn't stop making fun of some 'packers' guy. Nothing intelligent came out of his mouth, i also believe that he has/had multiple accounts on SS and has chats with himself just to bump his own threads.penkitten said:
SageProduct and Naughty Ninja are the very same guy.
Maybe he is spending his time productive now, i know i'm not, because right now i'm replying to a total stranger
penkitten
Master Don Juan
oh goodness. I had no idea that the two posters were the same person.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
chat room is open!
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
Dedication said:I think less than a month back, the guy showed that he had too much time on his hands. I entered an SS chat a while back and he couldn't stop making fun of some 'packers' guy. Nothing intelligent came out of his mouth, i also believe that he has/had multiple accounts on SS and has chats with himself just to bump his own threads.
SageProduct and Naughty Ninja are the very same guy.
Maybe he is spending his time productive now, i know i'm not, because right now i'm replying to a total stranger
48 days till the season starts man!