"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LIVE Chat Tonight
- Thread starter VladPatton
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
VladPatton said:
What's the topic? Or is it just a Saturday night circle jerk?
Has anyone ever joined the live chats before?
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Yep, Saturday night circle jerk.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump
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BeDJ
Guest
penkitten - yeah to your previous pm
Don't be a hoarder, clear some space.
Don't be a hoarder, clear some space.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
I'd hope this isn't on some Chat Roulette type of sh1t where dudes here are lathering themselves up in a frenzy on cam.
SS Live chat doesn't need sh1t getting too "live". LMAO.
SS Live chat doesn't need sh1t getting too "live". LMAO.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i never even saw this until now. sorry the pm box was full. i didnt even realize it. thank you for leading the chat that night. you rock!:rockon:BeginningDJ said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no cameras. aint nobody got time for that ! lolNaughty Ninja said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
when did the ninja dude get banned?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dedication
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 26, 2008
- Messages
- 321
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I think less than a month back, the guy showed that he had too much time on his hands. I entered an SS chat a while back and he couldn't stop making fun of some 'packers' guy. Nothing intelligent came out of his mouth, i also believe that he has/had multiple accounts on SS and has chats with himself just to bump his own threads.penkitten said:
SageProduct and Naughty Ninja are the very same guy.
Maybe he is spending his time productive now, i know i'm not, because right now i'm replying to a total stranger
penkitten
Master Don Juan
oh goodness. I had no idea that the two posters were the same person.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
chat room is open!
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
Dedication said:I think less than a month back, the guy showed that he had too much time on his hands. I entered an SS chat a while back and he couldn't stop making fun of some 'packers' guy. Nothing intelligent came out of his mouth, i also believe that he has/had multiple accounts on SS and has chats with himself just to bump his own threads.
SageProduct and Naughty Ninja are the very same guy.
Maybe he is spending his time productive now, i know i'm not, because right now i'm replying to a total stranger
48 days till the season starts man!