The-Sultan
Don Juan
i know theres a chat but u need to install a program, so why not just make a mIRC channel
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yes, the program is a stand-alone IRC client. The channel already exists.Originally posted by The-Sultan
i know theres a chat but u need to install a program, so why not just make a mIRC channel
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
He has a point on this...there should be a link somewhere on the site that allows people to find the chat. Personally, I hate IRC and won't ever use it, so I don't care about the link...but there are others who would use it if they knew where to find it.Originally posted by The-Sultan
it should be written at the top of each page because no1 is ever in there, people dont even know about it.
I actually started a Java Chat that Allen paid for and included as part of the site. It was a VERY cool, fun and popular chatroom. However, Neanderthal Supersoldier was very, very naughty in the chat room (and was a bad influence on a few other members) and ultimately his behavior led to Allen getting disgusted and shutting it down. I'm guessing that is why Allen ignores any chatroom requests.Originally posted by diablo
Hey, I'm not in charge of site layout and design... if you want to make your suggestion, there's a section of the forum just for that.By the way, Sultan's original question wasn't even that legit (no offense). He knew that there was a chat and a client that would allow you to talk to other people on the board, but instead of downloading it and finding out through using it that it would link you to a IRC channel, he ignored the fact that it existed entirely and posted a request that a (pre-existing) channel be made. If you want to chat, use what we have to do so. If you don't... feel free to start up your own DJ chat room.
I think the IRC channel was advertised heavily for some time, but the interest never picked up. If people are interested enough, they'll do a search. However, I'm guessing that the questions Sultan would be posing in the channel can be readily answered by simply reading the DJB.
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.Originally posted by Wyldfire
I actually started a Java Chat that Allen paid for and included as part of the site. It was a VERY cool, fun and popular chatroom. However, Neanderthal Supersoldier was very, very naughty in the chat room (and was a bad influence on a few other members) and ultimately his behavior led to Allen getting disgusted and shutting it down. I'm guessing that is why Allen ignores any chatroom requests.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ya... I was there quite often (as here too), but now I'm in army shooting with my gun.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.
Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys
Laterz...
Laterz...
hehe, yeah.. well, when u get some free time, come and catch up with all of usOriginally posted by Hot Ice
Ya... I was there quite often (as here too), but now I'm in army shooting with my gun.
I pop in occasionally, and you're ALWAYS there, and you NEVER talk.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.
Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys
Laterz...
Laterz...
lol... just say " AeQu|TaS " in the channel and it will flash me that someone is trying to speak to me.... I am active/talkative there about 1 or 2 hours a dayOriginally posted by squirrels
I pop in occasionally, and you're ALWAYS there, and you NEVER talk.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I ain't typing that damn pipe symbol...f**k off. :crackup:Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
lol... just say " AeQu|TaS " in the channel and it will flash me that someone is trying to speak to me.... I am active/talkative there about 1 or 2 hours a day![]()
lol... Well here's an idea... Type "a" and then press your "Tab" button.... magicOriginally posted by squirrels
I ain't typing that damn pipe symbol...f**k off. :crackup: