"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i know theres a chat but u need to install a program, so why not just make a mIRC channel
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If we havent got one, i can make one for us..
 
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Originally posted by The-Sultan
i know theres a chat but u need to install a program, so why not just make a mIRC channel
Yes, the program is a stand-alone IRC client. The channel already exists. :rolleyes:

#donjuan on irc.starchat.net


Do a search next time, this has been asked several times before (your specific question, not just "is there a chat").
 

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it should be written at the top of each page because no1 is ever in there, people dont even know about it.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
it should be written at the top of each page because no1 is ever in there, people dont even know about it.
He has a point on this...there should be a link somewhere on the site that allows people to find the chat. Personally, I hate IRC and won't ever use it, so I don't care about the link...but there are others who would use it if they knew where to find it.

And diablo...people shouldn't have to search the forum to find a chat link...it should be put in a place that is convenient for the members. That's just good site design, afterall.
 

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Hey, I'm not in charge of site layout and design... if you want to make your suggestion, there's a section of the forum just for that. :p By the way, Sultan's original question wasn't even that legit (no offense). He knew that there was a chat and a client that would allow you to talk to other people on the board, but instead of downloading it and finding out through using it that it would link you to a IRC channel, he ignored the fact that it existed entirely and posted a request that a (pre-existing) channel be made. If you want to chat, use what we have to do so. If you don't... feel free to start up your own DJ chat room. :)

I think the IRC channel was advertised heavily for some time, but the interest never picked up. If people are interested enough, they'll do a search. However, I'm guessing that the questions Sultan would be posing in the channel can be readily answered by simply reading the DJB.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Hey, I'm not in charge of site layout and design... if you want to make your suggestion, there's a section of the forum just for that. :p By the way, Sultan's original question wasn't even that legit (no offense). He knew that there was a chat and a client that would allow you to talk to other people on the board, but instead of downloading it and finding out through using it that it would link you to a IRC channel, he ignored the fact that it existed entirely and posted a request that a (pre-existing) channel be made. If you want to chat, use what we have to do so. If you don't... feel free to start up your own DJ chat room. :)

I think the IRC channel was advertised heavily for some time, but the interest never picked up. If people are interested enough, they'll do a search. However, I'm guessing that the questions Sultan would be posing in the channel can be readily answered by simply reading the DJB.
I actually started a Java Chat that Allen paid for and included as part of the site. It was a VERY cool, fun and popular chatroom. However, Neanderthal Supersoldier was very, very naughty in the chat room (and was a bad influence on a few other members) and ultimately his behavior led to Allen getting disgusted and shutting it down. I'm guessing that is why Allen ignores any chatroom requests. :D
 

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IRC CHANNEL...

Originally posted by Wyldfire
I actually started a Java Chat that Allen paid for and included as part of the site. It was a VERY cool, fun and popular chatroom. However, Neanderthal Supersoldier was very, very naughty in the chat room (and was a bad influence on a few other members) and ultimately his behavior led to Allen getting disgusted and shutting it down. I'm guessing that is why Allen ignores any chatroom requests. :D
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.

Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys;)


Laterz...


Laterz...
 

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ok thanks guys i also put it in my sig so more people can come in.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: IRC CHANNEL...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.

Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys;)


Laterz...


Laterz...
Ya... I was there quite often (as here too), but now I'm in army shooting with my gun.
 

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Re: Re: IRC CHANNEL...

Originally posted by Hot Ice
Ya... I was there quite often (as here too), but now I'm in army shooting with my gun.
hehe, yeah.. well, when u get some free time, come and catch up with all of us;)


Laterz...
 

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i can never get the irc channel up.
dunno what i am doing wrong .
 

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Re: IRC CHANNEL...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.

Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys;)


Laterz...


Laterz...
I pop in occasionally, and you're ALWAYS there, and you NEVER talk. :p
 

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Re: Re: IRC CHANNEL...

Originally posted by squirrels
I pop in occasionally, and you're ALWAYS there, and you NEVER talk. :p
lol... just say " AeQu|TaS " in the channel and it will flash me that someone is trying to speak to me.... I am active/talkative there about 1 or 2 hours a day;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: Re: IRC CHANNEL...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
lol... just say " AeQu|TaS " in the channel and it will flash me that someone is trying to speak to me.... I am active/talkative there about 1 or 2 hours a day;)
I ain't typing that damn pipe symbol...f**k off. :crackup:
 

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LAZY ASS!

Originally posted by squirrels
I ain't typing that damn pipe symbol...f**k off. :crackup:
lol... Well here's an idea... Type "a" and then press your "Tab" button.... magic;) :rockon:


Laterz...
 
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