The-Sultan
Don Juan
i know theres a chat but u need to install a program, so why not just make a mIRC channel
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Live chat on mIRC
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The-Sultan
Don Juan
If we havent got one, i can make one for us..
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Yes, the program is a stand-alone IRC client. The channel already exists.
#donjuan on irc.starchat.net
Do a search next time, this has been asked several times before (your specific question, not just "is there a chat").
The-Sultan
Don Juan
ah, soz
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The-Sultan
Don Juan
it should be written at the top of each page because no1 is ever in there, people dont even know about it.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
He has a point on this...there should be a link somewhere on the site that allows people to find the chat. Personally, I hate IRC and won't ever use it, so I don't care about the link...but there are others who would use it if they knew where to find it.
And diablo...people shouldn't have to search the forum to find a chat link...it should be put in a place that is convenient for the members. That's just good site design, afterall.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Hey, I'm not in charge of site layout and design... if you want to make your suggestion, there's a section of the forum just for that. By the way, Sultan's original question wasn't even that legit (no offense). He knew that there was a chat and a client that would allow you to talk to other people on the board, but instead of downloading it and finding out through using it that it would link you to a IRC channel, he ignored the fact that it existed entirely and posted a request that a (pre-existing) channel be made. If you want to chat, use what we have to do so. If you don't... feel free to start up your own DJ chat room.
I think the IRC channel was advertised heavily for some time, but the interest never picked up. If people are interested enough, they'll do a search. However, I'm guessing that the questions Sultan would be posing in the channel can be readily answered by simply reading the DJB.
By the way, Sultan's original question wasn't even that legit (no offense). He knew that there was a chat and a client that would allow you to talk to other people on the board, but instead of downloading it and finding out through using it that it would link you to a IRC channel, he ignored the fact that it existed entirely and posted a request that a (pre-existing) channel be made. If you want to chat, use what we have to do so. If you don't... feel free to start up your own DJ chat room. I think the IRC channel was advertised heavily for some time, but the interest never picked up. If people are interested enough, they'll do a search. However, I'm guessing that the questions Sultan would be posing in the channel can be readily answered by simply reading the DJB.
I actually started a Java Chat that Allen paid for and included as part of the site. It was a VERY cool, fun and popular chatroom. However, Neanderthal Supersoldier was very, very naughty in the chat room (and was a bad influence on a few other members) and ultimately his behavior led to Allen getting disgusted and shutting it down. I'm guessing that is why Allen ignores any chatroom requests.Originally posted by diablo
Hey, I'm not in charge of site layout and design... if you want to make your suggestion, there's a section of the forum just for that.
I think the IRC channel was advertised heavily for some time, but the interest never picked up. If people are interested enough, they'll do a search. However, I'm guessing that the questions Sultan would be posing in the channel can be readily answered by simply reading the DJB.
IRC CHANNEL...
Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys
Laterz...
Laterz...
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.Originally posted by Wyldfire
I actually started a Java Chat that Allen paid for and included as part of the site. It was a VERY cool, fun and popular chatroom. However, Neanderthal Supersoldier was very, very naughty in the chat room (and was a bad influence on a few other members) and ultimately his behavior led to Allen getting disgusted and shutting it down. I'm guessing that is why Allen ignores any chatroom requests.
Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys
Laterz...
Laterz...
The-Sultan
Don Juan
ok thanks guys i also put it in my sig so more people can come in.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Re: IRC CHANNEL...
Ya... I was there quite often (as here too), but now I'm in army shooting with my gun.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.
Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys
Laterz...
Laterz...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i can never get the irc channel up.
dunno what i am doing wrong .
dunno what i am doing wrong .
squirrels
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Re: IRC CHANNEL...
I pop in occasionally, and you're ALWAYS there, and you NEVER talk.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I personaly think that we SHOULD get one going again, but if Allen insists on not having it again, then so be it.
Anyways... I am always on the IRC chat channel, I am currently the founder of it (owner of it) so if u wanna come speak, feel free. A few guys HAVE popped in here and there, but its normaly empty, so COME guys
Laterz...
Laterz...
Re: Re: IRC CHANNEL...
lol... just say " AeQu|TaS " in the channel and it will flash me that someone is trying to speak to me.... I am active/talkative there about 1 or 2 hours a dayOriginally posted by squirrels
I pop in occasionally, and you're ALWAYS there, and you NEVER talk.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
squirrels
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Re: Re: Re: IRC CHANNEL...
I ain't typing that damn pipe symbol...f**k off. :crackup:Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
lol... just say " AeQu|TaS " in the channel and it will flash me that someone is trying to speak to me.... I am active/talkative there about 1 or 2 hours a day