"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Live Action: Red Pill vs. Blue Pill

FMCSMT

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So, been divorced 3 years, have 50/50 3 kids, actually building a new house (something I never thought I’d say) and won the marital home, kept my stuff, not the typical story where dude loses everything, ya know. Wife was hot too, no doubt, definite 10/10 when we started in high school. (She hates me btw, make relationships helll and she cheated, go figure).

Been learning a lot. But I found SS after reading The Rational Male and that not only awakened me, I act different at work, friends, general public, women (get laid a lot more by more women and can’t complain).

However, I found this place after falling for a woman for the third time after divorce. Like fvck man, I can’t keep doing this to myself when I raise 3 little shvts half the time and maintain a career that’s more than strong enough to build a new home (not stay in my marital home, where the end is all my kids really remember about this place) and move forward.

A good close longtime friend handed me TRM. I’m a fan of books. I think they’re key in self improvement. Audio would be even better.

Anyways. Fell in love with the last one. Maybe the idea of her. Whatever it was there is a connection to her. I think about her sometimes when I’m with another, hotter woman. I don’t know what it really was about that last “Love”. I didn’t know of Hypergamy yet. I knew well of Mystery.

So she sends me the following text today. We’ve never been social media friends and we did not date during either of our birthdays (we are both winter babies) and we broke up six months ago:

Happy birthday Ben( I know I'm late) I hope you got to do something fun and it wasn't disappointing

She’s a day late. (And a dollar short, ha). I literally banged her 90 times in one month (we only dated for 3 months).

So what do I want? Why have I called on the experts here today?

I want to bang her again but when I’m available because I am too busy right now. I have 2 other hotter women that I’ve been banging and really haven’t had time for them.

I want to either respond with something that makes her available to me in the future, or I need to not respond at all. The only type of response should probably be when are we getting together style but I want to know, what say you?

You guys and gals are some clever ones, so I appreciate it.

There is a Blue Pill part of me that strongly suggests I either walk away or I most likely will get hurt again because Love was felt once with this one. She is the last woman I fell in love with.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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I don't see this ending well for you...you have her on so high a pedestal your neck has to be stiff from looking up to see her.

I dont recommend it.
 

lizardking82

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"Birthday was good, thank you. Let me know if you're up for a drink someday".

Non-chalance, chill and cool. This should not even be a thread creater at all.
 
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