There was this girl I knew years ago and I accidently figured where she works by bar hopping. One day I was walking towards the bathroom and she was near there and saw me and smiles but I kept walking(showing disinterest). Now everytime i show up there she avoids me. Advice?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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- Thread starter Bossman90
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yep thats your typical female , next time you meet her act like nothing happened, just smile and say hi...if she acts rude towards you, you ask her why she's acting like a ******do not use exact words* though she might still be pissed off at what you did, its not that serious an issue..just talk to her and everything would be alright..Stop over analyzing
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Yeah bro dont over analyze... The best thing to do now is to just whip out your penis and wiggle it when she sees you.....Works everytime.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Im gay bro
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Why care about what this one girl is doing. If she looked good you should have just introduced yourself and see if she was co-operative. Your not going to get girls when you ignore them. Go ahead and put your bid in or don't even think about this girl. Better yet, Go and add some more females to the team.
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Good luck with that. You can't even figure out how to start a conversation with her.Bossman90 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thats not the case. I ignored her on purpose. I could easily go talk to her with out a problem. I do have an issue though, I went through severe depression and lost a lot of my pimp skills so I am no longer as good as I used to be. i think it will get in my way to achieve my goal.gpshields3 said: