There was this girl I knew years ago and I accidently figured where she works by bar hopping. One day I was walking towards the bathroom and she was near there and saw me and smiles but I kept walking(showing disinterest). Now everytime i show up there she avoids me. Advice?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yep thats your typical female , next time you meet her act like nothing happened, just smile and say hi...if she acts rude towards you, you ask her why she's acting like a ******do not use exact words* though she might still be pissed off at what you did, its not that serious an issue..just talk to her and everything would be alright..Stop over analyzing
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Yeah bro dont over analyze... The best thing to do now is to just whip out your penis and wiggle it when she sees you.....Works everytime.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Im gay bro
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Why care about what this one girl is doing. If she looked good you should have just introduced yourself and see if she was co-operative. Your not going to get girls when you ignore them. Go ahead and put your bid in or don't even think about this girl. Better yet, Go and add some more females to the team.
gpshields3
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Good luck with that. You can't even figure out how to start a conversation with her.Bossman90 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thats not the case. I ignored her on purpose. I could easily go talk to her with out a problem. I do have an issue though, I went through severe depression and lost a lot of my pimp skills so I am no longer as good as I used to be. i think it will get in my way to achieve my goal.gpshields3 said: