There was this girl I knew years ago and I accidently figured where she works by bar hopping. One day I was walking towards the bathroom and she was near there and saw me and smiles but I kept walking(showing disinterest). Now everytime i show up there she avoids me. Advice?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yep thats your typical female , next time you meet her act like nothing happened, just smile and say hi...if she acts rude towards you, you ask her why she's acting like a ******do not use exact words* though she might still be pissed off at what you did, its not that serious an issue..just talk to her and everything would be alright..Stop over analyzing
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Yeah bro dont over analyze... The best thing to do now is to just whip out your penis and wiggle it when she sees you.....Works everytime.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Im gay bro
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Why care about what this one girl is doing. If she looked good you should have just introduced yourself and see if she was co-operative. Your not going to get girls when you ignore them. Go ahead and put your bid in or don't even think about this girl. Better yet, Go and add some more females to the team.
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Good luck with that. You can't even figure out how to start a conversation with her.Bossman90 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thats not the case. I ignored her on purpose. I could easily go talk to her with out a problem. I do have an issue though, I went through severe depression and lost a lot of my pimp skills so I am no longer as good as I used to be. i think it will get in my way to achieve my goal.gpshields3 said: