There was this girl I knew years ago and I accidently figured where she works by bar hopping. One day I was walking towards the bathroom and she was near there and saw me and smiles but I kept walking(showing disinterest). Now everytime i show up there she avoids me. Advice?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
yep thats your typical female , next time you meet her act like nothing happened, just smile and say hi...if she acts rude towards you, you ask her why she's acting like a ******do not use exact words* though she might still be pissed off at what you did, its not that serious an issue..just talk to her and everything would be alright..Stop over analyzing
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Yeah bro dont over analyze... The best thing to do now is to just whip out your penis and wiggle it when she sees you.....Works everytime.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Im gay bro
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Why care about what this one girl is doing. If she looked good you should have just introduced yourself and see if she was co-operative. Your not going to get girls when you ignore them. Go ahead and put your bid in or don't even think about this girl. Better yet, Go and add some more females to the team.
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Good luck with that. You can't even figure out how to start a conversation with her.Bossman90 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thats not the case. I ignored her on purpose. I could easily go talk to her with out a problem. I do have an issue though, I went through severe depression and lost a lot of my pimp skills so I am no longer as good as I used to be. i think it will get in my way to achieve my goal.gpshields3 said: