"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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litle help?

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ok so i joined this site like a week ago...and theres this girl...i see her all the time when she passes by with her friends and everytime she does we always make eye contact...i want to aproach her but i dont know how because i've never done something like that before..im pretty much your avrage looking shy guy so yeah...any tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Read the bible....

Approach.....


Simple huh :D
 

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i tried that...but theres so many of them and theres so much stuff on them too i just forget what i read 5 min after im done...and im not looking for nothing fancy either...just like after i say hi and my name what do i say?
 

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Here's something:

One thing I do to approach strange female in public (twice yesterday), in a way that makes them really curious about why I'm approaching them, without thinking it's a pick-up, is just go up to them, put your eyebrows together in a suspicious look and ask:

"Who are you?"

Then she'll give you her name and everything else you want to know. She'll ask "Why?" and you'll comply with:

"Hmmmm... was looking for someone."

Then carry conversation.
 

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Ooh, if I was you, I would do something rediculous. Like slapping her on the ass twice and asking 'how much for that'. Something crazy that would make her hate me, but would totally rid me of all fear of hot babes.

But I already did that, so come up with something new ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Nex
Here's something:

One thing I do to approach strange female in public (twice yesterday), in a way that makes them really curious about why I'm approaching them, without thinking it's a pick-up, is just go up to them, put your eyebrows together in a suspicious look and ask:

"Who are you?"

Then she'll give you her name and everything else you want to know. She'll ask "Why?" and you'll comply with:

"Hmmmm... was looking for someone."

Then carry conversation.


thanx...ill try to use that...i love you now :D


as for the other dude...i think ill try something really stupid like that....but not on this girl lol
 
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