Yeah...felt like catching your attention, sorry. Um, basically...when talking to a girl, how would you make her remember to call you back. I mean, if a girl really wants you, of course she'd remember, but it's not at that stage yet. I basically want to talk to this girl tonight, and have her call me up tommorow night and then we go out and do something. What could I say tonight that would make her really want to talk to me again soon? Basically, how would I make her the pursuer.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I've honestly not read every single part o it, but I've read stuff that you might consider applicable to my question. I don't particuclarly like the Gunwitch method, and I couldn't find anything directly applicable to what I'm looking for.
EDIT: And Jerkson, you're a moron. If you read what I posted, this isn't about' call her up, take her out, **** her'. I'm trying to specifically turn the tables in the pursuit so I can reduce the feeling where I'm being the pursuer.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If a girl wants to call you back, she will. If she wants to see you, she will. If you need to make her "remember" then you're not doing things correctly.
What do you mean, its not at that stage yet?
Call her yourself then. If she doesn't want to do something, then move on.
Their is no "magic line" that will make a girl drool over you.
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Um...yeah, this is hard to put into words, but basically, are there key things you could work into a conversation to keep you on her mind. I mean...bah.
I think that's where your problem lies. You don't just give up on a girl if she doesn't have initial attraction. What kind of behavior is that for a PUA? Sure, if she's taking up TOO much of your attention then definitely drop her, but if you're just starting with a target (like I am) then wtf.
Um...yeah, this is hard to put into words, but basically, are there key things you could work into a conversation to keep you on her mind. I mean...bah.
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Within the first 5 minutes of meeting a girl, she knows if she wants to f*ck you or not. Chances are, if she has no attraction now, she probably won't.
If a girl isn't interested, next her, and move on. An AFC would hang around hoping for something to happen.
You should read the bible.
What kind of behavior is this?
Within the first 5 minutes of meeting a girl, she knows if she wants to f*ck you or not. Chances are, if she has no attraction now, she probably won't.
If a girl isn't interested, next her, and move on. An AFC would hang around hoping for something to happen.
You should read the bible.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Master Don Juan
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..quite honestly , girls know by just looking at you and it's really in that instant.
BUT things like social proof, social value,high status are all things
that up ones attractiveness- even if she wasn't initially.
..quite honestly , girls know by just looking at you and it's really in that instant.
BUT things like social proof, social value,high status are all things
that up ones attractiveness- even if she wasn't initially.
lol thanks JC
!! Didn't think you cared so much about me. But all the moanin and gronin he doing is for the right reasons !. Anyways I don't know why I said that but don't FLAME me plz :-(!... So anyways back to my DJ bible reading :woo: :woo: :cheer: :cheer: (who knew reading was so fun )