Yeah...felt like catching your attention, sorry. Um, basically...when talking to a girl, how would you make her remember to call you back. I mean, if a girl really wants you, of course she'd remember, but it's not at that stage yet. I basically want to talk to this girl tonight, and have her call me up tommorow night and then we go out and do something. What could I say tonight that would make her really want to talk to me again soon? Basically, how would I make her the pursuer.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I've honestly not read every single part o it, but I've read stuff that you might consider applicable to my question. I don't particuclarly like the Gunwitch method, and I couldn't find anything directly applicable to what I'm looking for.
EDIT: And Jerkson, you're a moron. If you read what I posted, this isn't about' call her up, take her out, **** her'. I'm trying to specifically turn the tables in the pursuit so I can reduce the feeling where I'm being the pursuer.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If a girl wants to call you back, she will. If she wants to see you, she will. If you need to make her "remember" then you're not doing things correctly.
What do you mean, its not at that stage yet?
Call her yourself then. If she doesn't want to do something, then move on.
Their is no "magic line" that will make a girl drool over you.
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Um...yeah, this is hard to put into words, but basically, are there key things you could work into a conversation to keep you on her mind. I mean...bah.
I think that's where your problem lies. You don't just give up on a girl if she doesn't have initial attraction. What kind of behavior is that for a PUA? Sure, if she's taking up TOO much of your attention then definitely drop her, but if you're just starting with a target (like I am) then wtf.
Um...yeah, this is hard to put into words, but basically, are there key things you could work into a conversation to keep you on her mind. I mean...bah.
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Within the first 5 minutes of meeting a girl, she knows if she wants to f*ck you or not. Chances are, if she has no attraction now, she probably won't.
If a girl isn't interested, next her, and move on. An AFC would hang around hoping for something to happen.
You should read the bible.
What kind of behavior is this?
Within the first 5 minutes of meeting a girl, she knows if she wants to f*ck you or not. Chances are, if she has no attraction now, she probably won't.
If a girl isn't interested, next her, and move on. An AFC would hang around hoping for something to happen.
You should read the bible.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
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..quite honestly , girls know by just looking at you and it's really in that instant.
BUT things like social proof, social value,high status are all things
that up ones attractiveness- even if she wasn't initially.
..quite honestly , girls know by just looking at you and it's really in that instant.
BUT things like social proof, social value,high status are all things
that up ones attractiveness- even if she wasn't initially.
lol thanks JC
!! Didn't think you cared so much about me. But all the moanin and gronin he doing is for the right reasons !. Anyways I don't know why I said that but don't FLAME me plz :-(!... So anyways back to my DJ bible reading :woo: :woo: :cheer: :cheer: (who knew reading was so fun )