"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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List physical locations that you've had luck finding dates

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Let's make a list of places around your town/city that you have had luck approaching new women BY YOURSELF. Obviously women are everywhere, but there are some places that are more conducive to the logistics of an approach.

For instance, it is socially acceptable/not creepy (by a woman's standards) for a guy to go to Starbucks by himself and get a cup of coffee/bring a laptop to do work, and "coincidentally" sit across from a dime and strike up a conversation. This also works well because she's more likely to be away from her friends.

Likewise, meeting a girl on the street is not as good (although possible), because best case scenario you'll swap numbers after a very short period and won't get a chance to build up rapport.

What are some other good places to start, OTHER than bars/clubs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Drdeee said:
I originally thought this wasn't a problem, but it might be to some degree. Still, how does a busy working guy who goes straight from home to work to home come in contact with more girls? What are some good hotspots? I have a large social circle that loves to frequent bars/clubs, but don't want to date within the group and want to bring girls I've met elsewhere to these locations.

Just thought of this one: busy local laundromat
 

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Car washes. Chicks with BFs don't usually wash their own car.
 

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Blackmm said:
Car washes. Chicks with BFs don't usually wash their own car.
Really? That's weird.

So you've always washed your various girlfriends' cars?

Not being sarcastic. I'm seriously curious.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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clubs
gym
stores
work (yikes on that though)
bars
on the street
at the mall
getting car repairs
going to the park
going to classes
going to music events
at restaurants
public transportation
airplanes
online (but rarely)
at my apartment complex
at the beach
pretty much anywhere...
 
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