"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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List Of Shaming Tactics That Make or Break You

Diaforetikos

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That sounds like my ex. She swore up and down that she was gonna get dreads.

NOT ON MY WATCH B!TCH!!

And she could talk for days. Nope! Left the ho rea'o quick.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey Razor, unrelated to this discussion but I'm curious all the same, you spoke about a lot of stuff in the past tense there, like it was in the (distant) past. Are you in an LTR or just on hiatus from the 'scene'?
 

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A notable shaming comeback from me recently:

Girl: Scars, you are such a wh0re!
Me: I'm not a wh0re, I'm an opportunist!

I forgot where I heard this once, but I always thought it was pretty clever.
 

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HeyPachuco!

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The days of clubbing a girl over the head and dragging her into your cave are gone.

Its a much sophisticated ballgame.

Trader is spot on.

Phone, Online and Text = Saftey, comfort zone, insurance to act uppity, brave and higher rejection frequency.

Approaching, face-to-face and social gathering = kitten-persona, everything sweet, ditzy, innocent and less readily to reject.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm a little embarrassed that this hasn't been mentioned, but what if a girl asks if you're gay?

THis has happened to me twice, both times with HB9s that were pretty into me--I thought--and I wasn't escalating strongly enough. Or I thought I was escalating pretty well, but obviously not as much as they wanted/expected. What I concluded is that the really hot girls are so used to guys falling over themselves giving her sh*tloads of attention, when I act comfortable with myself it confuses them..

So when a girl later asks you--"Are you gay?" (meaning I didn't escalate enough, or I DID escalate but apparently only gay guys are confident to get a girl to sit on your lap?)
I took it pretty disrespectfully, but calmy said, "No, are you?" (of course she gave me the opportunity to mess w/ her, saying 'lol I mostly like boys,' to which I replied 'Mostly! Wow so you arent afraid to try girls out thats getting me pretty hot and bothered')

I dont really know how to retort to this, I guess I'm pretty passive with hot slices of meat where I should be more aggressive. If you avoid passiveness you avoid getting asked that I guess?
 
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