"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Liposculpture

bullmoose

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I'm going to regret asking this, but has anyone tried liposculpture to get off that last little bit of ab fat that won't go away?

I take in 1500-1800 calories per day. I have a 32 waist at 5'10" and a 44" chest. I run 3-5 miles, on hills, 3-4 times per week; I can do 50 pushups in 60 seconds and 100 crunches in 120 seconds. Even when I was in the Marines and at my physical peak I didn't have 6-pack abs. I've always had a little pouch of fat around my belly button. I have 4 solid, perfect abs, nice serratus and good obliques, tapering down into a shapeless mass at my waist. I'm not fat; just undefined for about three vertical inches.

I'm considering liposculpture to kick my genetics right in the @$$ and get that Brad Pitt in Fight Club look.

Anyone done it? Anyone care to offer up a CBA (cost-benefit analysis?)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warboss Alex

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Are those three vertical inches so important to you? If so fine, have the surgery .. it's your body.

Possibly talk to a bodybuilding coach who specialises in pre-contest stuff, he might have some exotic ideas.
 

medjaun

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I'm in the same boat, have a little pouch over my abs thats concentrated. In order for that to go away I'd have to look like a skeleton everywhere else (altho I plan to add some muscle to fill out).

Make sure you arent limiting your calories too much or over training. That can mess up your metabolism. I did the same thing and hit a plataeu.
 

bullmoose

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I tried eating big; I was a gym rat for years. I gain really well, but still no 5th or 6th abs. Plus, my neck and jaw get huge and I look like a moron when I bulk up. Seriously. I pull off the Big Galoot look really well, which is not cool given my current career choice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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