"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Liposculpture

bullmoose

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I'm going to regret asking this, but has anyone tried liposculpture to get off that last little bit of ab fat that won't go away?

I take in 1500-1800 calories per day. I have a 32 waist at 5'10" and a 44" chest. I run 3-5 miles, on hills, 3-4 times per week; I can do 50 pushups in 60 seconds and 100 crunches in 120 seconds. Even when I was in the Marines and at my physical peak I didn't have 6-pack abs. I've always had a little pouch of fat around my belly button. I have 4 solid, perfect abs, nice serratus and good obliques, tapering down into a shapeless mass at my waist. I'm not fat; just undefined for about three vertical inches.

I'm considering liposculpture to kick my genetics right in the @$$ and get that Brad Pitt in Fight Club look.

Anyone done it? Anyone care to offer up a CBA (cost-benefit analysis?)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warboss Alex

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Are those three vertical inches so important to you? If so fine, have the surgery .. it's your body.

Possibly talk to a bodybuilding coach who specialises in pre-contest stuff, he might have some exotic ideas.
 

medjaun

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I'm in the same boat, have a little pouch over my abs thats concentrated. In order for that to go away I'd have to look like a skeleton everywhere else (altho I plan to add some muscle to fill out).

Make sure you arent limiting your calories too much or over training. That can mess up your metabolism. I did the same thing and hit a plataeu.
 

bullmoose

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I tried eating big; I was a gym rat for years. I gain really well, but still no 5th or 6th abs. Plus, my neck and jaw get huge and I look like a moron when I bulk up. Seriously. I pull off the Big Galoot look really well, which is not cool given my current career choice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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