"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Liposculpture

bullmoose

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I'm going to regret asking this, but has anyone tried liposculpture to get off that last little bit of ab fat that won't go away?

I take in 1500-1800 calories per day. I have a 32 waist at 5'10" and a 44" chest. I run 3-5 miles, on hills, 3-4 times per week; I can do 50 pushups in 60 seconds and 100 crunches in 120 seconds. Even when I was in the Marines and at my physical peak I didn't have 6-pack abs. I've always had a little pouch of fat around my belly button. I have 4 solid, perfect abs, nice serratus and good obliques, tapering down into a shapeless mass at my waist. I'm not fat; just undefined for about three vertical inches.

I'm considering liposculpture to kick my genetics right in the @$$ and get that Brad Pitt in Fight Club look.

Anyone done it? Anyone care to offer up a CBA (cost-benefit analysis?)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warboss Alex

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Are those three vertical inches so important to you? If so fine, have the surgery .. it's your body.

Possibly talk to a bodybuilding coach who specialises in pre-contest stuff, he might have some exotic ideas.
 

medjaun

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I'm in the same boat, have a little pouch over my abs thats concentrated. In order for that to go away I'd have to look like a skeleton everywhere else (altho I plan to add some muscle to fill out).

Make sure you arent limiting your calories too much or over training. That can mess up your metabolism. I did the same thing and hit a plataeu.
 

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I tried eating big; I was a gym rat for years. I gain really well, but still no 5th or 6th abs. Plus, my neck and jaw get huge and I look like a moron when I bulk up. Seriously. I pull off the Big Galoot look really well, which is not cool given my current career choice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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