"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
links to obscure Donjuan sites
- Thread starter ethnomethodologist
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AsianPlayboy
Banned
BadBoy Cafe
http://www.badboycafe.com/viewforum.php?f=1&start=0&sid=7c77ddd0f0553831d3b08e76aa0392a5
Direct Method
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/
Dallas PUA Forum (2nd lair site)
http://dallaspua.com/forum/index.php?sid=97fee394afb7b4e09ad67cdecd86354c
PS I moderate the Asian PUA forum.
http://www.badboycafe.com/viewforum.php?f=1&start=0&sid=7c77ddd0f0553831d3b08e76aa0392a5
Direct Method
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/
Dallas PUA Forum (2nd lair site)
http://dallaspua.com/forum/index.php?sid=97fee394afb7b4e09ad67cdecd86354c
PS I moderate the Asian PUA forum.
dallasmojo
New Member
Thanks for the post. Though in a few months [url]www.dallaspua.com [/URL] won't be so obscure 
The site offers many free features such as a forum, personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone.
In addition to resources available for anyone, it will be dallaspua.com’s pleasure to provide a free forum and hosting to any lair leader who would like a fully functional forum for their group. The forum would be www.yourlair.dallaspua.com or you can buy a domain name for a few bucks (at yahoo, godaddy.com, etc.) and have it redirected to the forum; it would be www.yourlair.com, instead of www.yourlair.dallaspua.com. Dallas Pua is not a commercial site, therefore lairs hosted at dallaspua.com should be dedicated to the community without profit motive. Donations are welcome to keep the site running. To set up a free forum for your, just e-mail [email protected].
-- Dallas Mojo
The site offers many free features such as a forum, personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone.
In addition to resources available for anyone, it will be dallaspua.com’s pleasure to provide a free forum and hosting to any lair leader who would like a fully functional forum for their group. The forum would be www.yourlair.dallaspua.com or you can buy a domain name for a few bucks (at yahoo, godaddy.com, etc.) and have it redirected to the forum; it would be www.yourlair.com, instead of www.yourlair.dallaspua.com. Dallas Pua is not a commercial site, therefore lairs hosted at dallaspua.com should be dedicated to the community without profit motive. Donations are welcome to keep the site running. To set up a free forum for your, just e-mail [email protected].
-- Dallas Mojo
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
link to a scientificically reviewed list of memes
http://www.homoexcelsior.com/
http://www.homoexcelsior.com/
dallasmojo
New Member
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
the12thplanet
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man there was some site that someone from this forum showed me like a year ago with dozens of articles by puas but i dont know where it is! damn
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Spookey
Don Juan
not entirely DJ but an interesting theory:
http://www.intellectualwho res.com/masterladder.html
its the original.... and best
http://www.intellectualwho res.com/masterladder.html
why not just go to: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/The Juan and only said:
its the original.... and best
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ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Spookey
not entirely DJ but an interesting theory:
http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html
the intellectual wh0re page doesn't work with the word b!tch... I don't know why I didn't try wh0re in the first place...The Juan and only
http://www.sector31.com/layguide/index.shtml
why not just go to: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/
its the original.... and best
bristollair has a few good descriptions of the game
Spookey
Don Juan
the bristol is good for techniques n ****e that the folks around here seem to be not that keen on, as the DJ's seem to be more flexible
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.