"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
links to obscure Donjuan sites
- Thread starter ethnomethodologist
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
AsianPlayboy
Banned
BadBoy Cafe
http://www.badboycafe.com/viewforum.php?f=1&start=0&sid=7c77ddd0f0553831d3b08e76aa0392a5
Direct Method
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/
Dallas PUA Forum (2nd lair site)
http://dallaspua.com/forum/index.php?sid=97fee394afb7b4e09ad67cdecd86354c
PS I moderate the Asian PUA forum.
http://www.badboycafe.com/viewforum.php?f=1&start=0&sid=7c77ddd0f0553831d3b08e76aa0392a5
Direct Method
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/
Dallas PUA Forum (2nd lair site)
http://dallaspua.com/forum/index.php?sid=97fee394afb7b4e09ad67cdecd86354c
PS I moderate the Asian PUA forum.
dallasmojo
New Member
Thanks for the post. Though in a few months [url]www.dallaspua.com [/URL] won't be so obscure 
The site offers many free features such as a forum, personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone.
In addition to resources available for anyone, it will be dallaspua.com’s pleasure to provide a free forum and hosting to any lair leader who would like a fully functional forum for their group. The forum would be www.yourlair.dallaspua.com or you can buy a domain name for a few bucks (at yahoo, godaddy.com, etc.) and have it redirected to the forum; it would be www.yourlair.com, instead of www.yourlair.dallaspua.com. Dallas Pua is not a commercial site, therefore lairs hosted at dallaspua.com should be dedicated to the community without profit motive. Donations are welcome to keep the site running. To set up a free forum for your, just e-mail [email protected].
-- Dallas Mojo
The site offers many free features such as a forum, personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone.
In addition to resources available for anyone, it will be dallaspua.com’s pleasure to provide a free forum and hosting to any lair leader who would like a fully functional forum for their group. The forum would be www.yourlair.dallaspua.com or you can buy a domain name for a few bucks (at yahoo, godaddy.com, etc.) and have it redirected to the forum; it would be www.yourlair.com, instead of www.yourlair.dallaspua.com. Dallas Pua is not a commercial site, therefore lairs hosted at dallaspua.com should be dedicated to the community without profit motive. Donations are welcome to keep the site running. To set up a free forum for your, just e-mail [email protected].
-- Dallas Mojo
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
link to a scientificically reviewed list of memes
http://www.homoexcelsior.com/
http://www.homoexcelsior.com/
dallasmojo
New Member
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the12thplanet
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man there was some site that someone from this forum showed me like a year ago with dozens of articles by puas but i dont know where it is! damn
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Spookey
Don Juan
not entirely DJ but an interesting theory:
http://www.intellectualwho res.com/masterladder.html
its the original.... and best
http://www.intellectualwho res.com/masterladder.html
why not just go to: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/The Juan and only said:
its the original.... and best
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ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Spookey
not entirely DJ but an interesting theory:
http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html
the intellectual wh0re page doesn't work with the word b!tch... I don't know why I didn't try wh0re in the first place...The Juan and only
http://www.sector31.com/layguide/index.shtml
why not just go to: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/
its the original.... and best
bristollair has a few good descriptions of the game
Spookey
Don Juan
the bristol is good for techniques n ****e that the folks around here seem to be not that keen on, as the DJ's seem to be more flexible
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.