Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
links to obscure Donjuan sites
- Thread starter ethnomethodologist
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AsianPlayboy
Banned
BadBoy Cafe
http://www.badboycafe.com/viewforum.php?f=1&start=0&sid=7c77ddd0f0553831d3b08e76aa0392a5
Direct Method
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/
Dallas PUA Forum (2nd lair site)
http://dallaspua.com/forum/index.php?sid=97fee394afb7b4e09ad67cdecd86354c
PS I moderate the Asian PUA forum.
http://www.badboycafe.com/viewforum.php?f=1&start=0&sid=7c77ddd0f0553831d3b08e76aa0392a5
Direct Method
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/
Dallas PUA Forum (2nd lair site)
http://dallaspua.com/forum/index.php?sid=97fee394afb7b4e09ad67cdecd86354c
PS I moderate the Asian PUA forum.
dallasmojo
New Member
Thanks for the post. Though in a few months [url]www.dallaspua.com [/URL] won't be so obscure 
The site offers many free features such as a forum, personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone.
In addition to resources available for anyone, it will be dallaspua.com’s pleasure to provide a free forum and hosting to any lair leader who would like a fully functional forum for their group. The forum would be www.yourlair.dallaspua.com or you can buy a domain name for a few bucks (at yahoo, godaddy.com, etc.) and have it redirected to the forum; it would be www.yourlair.com, instead of www.yourlair.dallaspua.com. Dallas Pua is not a commercial site, therefore lairs hosted at dallaspua.com should be dedicated to the community without profit motive. Donations are welcome to keep the site running. To set up a free forum for your, just e-mail [email protected].
-- Dallas Mojo
The site offers many free features such as a forum, personal journals/blogs, extensive resource page, and more. It is based out of Dallas, but the tailored PUA features are available to anyone.
In addition to resources available for anyone, it will be dallaspua.com’s pleasure to provide a free forum and hosting to any lair leader who would like a fully functional forum for their group. The forum would be www.yourlair.dallaspua.com or you can buy a domain name for a few bucks (at yahoo, godaddy.com, etc.) and have it redirected to the forum; it would be www.yourlair.com, instead of www.yourlair.dallaspua.com. Dallas Pua is not a commercial site, therefore lairs hosted at dallaspua.com should be dedicated to the community without profit motive. Donations are welcome to keep the site running. To set up a free forum for your, just e-mail [email protected].
-- Dallas Mojo
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
link to a scientificically reviewed list of memes
http://www.homoexcelsior.com/
http://www.homoexcelsior.com/
dallasmojo
New Member
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
the12thplanet
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man there was some site that someone from this forum showed me like a year ago with dozens of articles by puas but i dont know where it is! damn
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Spookey
Don Juan
not entirely DJ but an interesting theory:
http://www.intellectualwho res.com/masterladder.html
its the original.... and best
http://www.intellectualwho res.com/masterladder.html
why not just go to: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/The Juan and only said:
its the original.... and best
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ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Spookey
not entirely DJ but an interesting theory:
http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html
the intellectual wh0re page doesn't work with the word b!tch... I don't know why I didn't try wh0re in the first place...The Juan and only
http://www.sector31.com/layguide/index.shtml
why not just go to: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/
its the original.... and best
bristollair has a few good descriptions of the game
Spookey
Don Juan
the bristol is good for techniques n ****e that the folks around here seem to be not that keen on, as the DJ's seem to be more flexible
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.