"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Linkden an IOI

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Hi,
Quick question....
I noticed a new girl at work had browsed my profile on LinkedIn. Nothing out of the ordinary, but I noticed she found me through the 'searched via LinkedIn App' option as a pose to just through a friend/mutual link etc...

We have never really spoken and I'm wondering if this could be considered a feasable indicator of interest.

Regards....

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Only way to find out is to ask her out. Yes, no , mystery solved.
 
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phil2015 said:
Hi,
Quick question....
I noticed a new girl at work had browsed my profile on LinkedIn. Nothing out of the ordinary, but I noticed she found me through the 'searched via LinkedIn App' option as a pose to just through a friend/mutual link etc...

We have never really spoken and I'm wondering if this could be considered a feasable indicator of interest.

Regards....

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IOI's are pretty much worthless. Guys will drive themselves crazy looking for an IOI instead of just going for what they want. Do you think a woman wants a man who has to wait to get IOI after IOI to make a move or a man who doesn't care if they get an IOI and just goes for what they want?

The only IOI worth anything is when she is butt naked in a room sucking your c0ck and you pounding her senseless afterwards.

Don't wait for an IOI, make a move. Except this is at work, so don't make a move unless you want to take a chance of being unhirable and get a sexual harassment charge...never dip your pen in the company's ink.
 
Building_and_Loan

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Could be something, could be nothing. She may have just thought she knew who you were but turned out to be mistaken.

Girls at work are a tricky situation, usually best if avoided. But I've done it with success by playing the long game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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phil2015 said:
Hi,
Quick question....
I noticed a new girl at work had browsed my profile on LinkedIn. Nothing out of the ordinary, but I noticed she found me through the 'searched via LinkedIn App' option as a pose to just through a friend/mutual link etc...

We have never really spoken and I'm wondering if this could be considered a feasable indicator of interest.

Regards....

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1. If you value your job, leave it be
2. If you don't value your job, find a better job
 
Lozboss

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Girl at work....

Yeah nah!

Although I have dated people from outside my company who LinkedIn with me.
 
RangerMIke

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Don't worry about what you think she might want, and go for what you want. It cuts through the BS and lets you know right away where you stand.

But to answer your question.... yes, women trolling your profile on Linked in is a sign of interest. But typically they do this in anonymous mode, or get one of their friends to do it for them.
 
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