Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Linkden an IOI

phil2015

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Hi,
Quick question....
I noticed a new girl at work had browsed my profile on LinkedIn. Nothing out of the ordinary, but I noticed she found me through the 'searched via LinkedIn App' option as a pose to just through a friend/mutual link etc...

We have never really spoken and I'm wondering if this could be considered a feasable indicator of interest.

Regards....

P Unit
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dustmuffin

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Only way to find out is to ask her out. Yes, no , mystery solved.
 

marmel75

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Hi,
Quick question....
I noticed a new girl at work had browsed my profile on LinkedIn. Nothing out of the ordinary, but I noticed she found me through the 'searched via LinkedIn App' option as a pose to just through a friend/mutual link etc...

We have never really spoken and I'm wondering if this could be considered a feasable indicator of interest.

Regards....

P Unit
IOI's are pretty much worthless. Guys will drive themselves crazy looking for an IOI instead of just going for what they want. Do you think a woman wants a man who has to wait to get IOI after IOI to make a move or a man who doesn't care if they get an IOI and just goes for what they want?

The only IOI worth anything is when she is butt naked in a room sucking your c0ck and you pounding her senseless afterwards.

Don't wait for an IOI, make a move. Except this is at work, so don't make a move unless you want to take a chance of being unhirable and get a sexual harassment charge...never dip your pen in the company's ink.
 

Building_and_Loan

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Could be something, could be nothing. She may have just thought she knew who you were but turned out to be mistaken.

Girls at work are a tricky situation, usually best if avoided. But I've done it with success by playing the long game.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yewki

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Hi,
Quick question....
I noticed a new girl at work had browsed my profile on LinkedIn. Nothing out of the ordinary, but I noticed she found me through the 'searched via LinkedIn App' option as a pose to just through a friend/mutual link etc...

We have never really spoken and I'm wondering if this could be considered a feasable indicator of interest.

Regards....

P Unit
1. If you value your job, leave it be
2. If you don't value your job, find a better job
 

Lozboss

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Girl at work....

Yeah nah!

Although I have dated people from outside my company who LinkedIn with me.
 

RangerMIke

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Don't worry about what you think she might want, and go for what you want. It cuts through the BS and lets you know right away where you stand.

But to answer your question.... yes, women trolling your profile on Linked in is a sign of interest. But typically they do this in anonymous mode, or get one of their friends to do it for them.
 
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