"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
) they never object; why would they?loveprefect
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More like 60% virgins...
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but u get my point
makes me laugh when guys post a pic in this forum "THE PERFECT 10!" and, always, she's gonna be awesome..
but there will be people saying "6", "i wouldn't touch it" "look at her nose" its alright to be picky.. but damn guys..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo: What is the purpose of you taing all these pics everywhere u go? And by seeing what u have shown us, i like your hobby, and if u ever come to South Africa, u have urself a job as a cameraman garanteed
Job comes with several advantages.... Just a thought. Anyways... If i were to ask the ppl i work with if they would want to post pics from where YOU are, would you take pics for us? (we will obviously pay you for it)
Let me know.
Laterz...
diablo
Master Don Juan
As for the "purpose" of taking pictures, there is none. Most nights I go out I don't bring a camera along. The only times I'll have one with me is if it's a 'special occasion' such as a friends birthday, a christmas party, halloween, etc etc etc. When I wasn't used to going out much, several years back, I'd bring a cam everywhere - now that it's become commonplace, it takes something worthwhile to get me to bring one out with me. If you wanted to look deeper, I guess the "reason" I take pictures at parties is so that I can look back at them when I'm a senile old 89 year old and say "Da*n, I've had a good life".
I don't get the question you asked me at the end. Could you rephrase it? From what I understand, you and your co-workers will pay me to take pictures of the city I live in?
Yeah thats waht i said
I'm gonna speak to them tonight about it. I'll PM you and let you know... What I get payed is R50 Per club, Plus Free entry ( I take about 60 pics MINIMUN per club) which takes me about 30 minutes. I'll let you know, though, its just an idea of mine which i think would be good, and seeing as you ENJOY taking pictures, i thought that you could make yourself some cash on the side as wellLaterz...