"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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line to use for all situations to get me started

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Once i get started im ok but as im a beginner i need something to say to give me a reason to approach so they feel it isnt a pick up so i can just leave if its going bad until i get better at this.

whats some good things to do? e.g asking there opinion on things or where something is
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BLUEox117

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you:hi.
her:hi.
you: wow you must have an iv hooked up to you.
her: huh ?
you: cause ive seen your bloody limbs torn off and your head severed and dripping with blood on a pole, and in a pool of blood your body slashed and stabbed in my head all week long
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try this it works.
 

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It depends on where you are and what's going on at the time. If you're at the mall you can ask an attractive girl to help you pick out somthing nice for yourself. Just make some good eye contact, walk over to her and say Hi, my name is, then talk to her. You don't have to say anything profound, just be yourself. Tell her you think she's cute and you think it would be a good idea for her to give up the digits so you can schedule a time to go out and get to know eachother better. Just keep things open and smooth. Have fun with it. I am in a LTR, and I would never cheat on my old lady, but I enjoy talking to women every where I go. Flirting is an art form. Practice it as much as you can. It become second nature after a few dozen times. Practice it on girls that you're not attracted to. Old women at the store, old ladies at work, just any girl that will respond to you if you talk to her. Stay confident. If a convo isn't going well, you can always end it by saying, "well it was great meeting/talking with you, have a nice day."
 
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