"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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line to use for all situations to get me started

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Once i get started im ok but as im a beginner i need something to say to give me a reason to approach so they feel it isnt a pick up so i can just leave if its going bad until i get better at this.

whats some good things to do? e.g asking there opinion on things or where something is
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you:hi.
her:hi.
you: wow you must have an iv hooked up to you.
her: huh ?
you: cause ive seen your bloody limbs torn off and your head severed and dripping with blood on a pole, and in a pool of blood your body slashed and stabbed in my head all week long
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try this it works.
 

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It depends on where you are and what's going on at the time. If you're at the mall you can ask an attractive girl to help you pick out somthing nice for yourself. Just make some good eye contact, walk over to her and say Hi, my name is, then talk to her. You don't have to say anything profound, just be yourself. Tell her you think she's cute and you think it would be a good idea for her to give up the digits so you can schedule a time to go out and get to know eachother better. Just keep things open and smooth. Have fun with it. I am in a LTR, and I would never cheat on my old lady, but I enjoy talking to women every where I go. Flirting is an art form. Practice it as much as you can. It become second nature after a few dozen times. Practice it on girls that you're not attracted to. Old women at the store, old ladies at work, just any girl that will respond to you if you talk to her. Stay confident. If a convo isn't going well, you can always end it by saying, "well it was great meeting/talking with you, have a nice day."
 
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