"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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like talking to a wall

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so last nite i went on my first like real date where i didnt know the girl. we went out to dinner and saw house of wax. it was ok i guess except it was impossible to hold a conversation with her. even though im new to the whole dating thing,she just wouldnt reciprocate. it was perfect too,shes an exchange student from germany so i asked her questions about germany and misc. other **** and i got mostly 1 word answers. ive heard from friends that its hard to talk to her so im not worried about it. only thing is im sposed to be going to prom with her and i wanna think of ways to open her up and be like a normal human being and not like a brick wall. anyway,just felt id share that. the whole night turned kinda awkward...specialy at the end..i defintely need some work,but thatll come with time.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Show her that you're different. That you're worth talking to.

Her friends are giving you ****, this is nothing more than a test.

Kino will open her up.
 
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Just remember, some girls will never break out of their shell no matter how hard you try. Usually its a good idea to find someone that is already open.
 
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being from another country and all..... could it be that she can't speak your language........

just a thought
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dinner and a movie? LAME
 
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Lol... bro... her english aint up to par. Talk slower, anunciate, and give her TIME to think about answers. Ive taken a few exchange students out - you have to work around language.
 
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Originally posted by Julian
dinner and a movie? LAME
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oh trust me,i know..i couldnt think of anything else to do around here.really theres not much to do..we usualy end up just having parties,people dont really go out on dates here.


she speaks english probly better than i do haha.

as for giving her time to think of answer, she'd answer the questions just as fast as i was saying them. so i really dont think i did anything wrong..i wasnt exactly a pimp,but whatever

oh and by friends i mean both male and female
 
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