"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
light on or off during sex?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
w/ candles lit
or a lava lamp
w/ some theivery corp. tunez \\ u gotta set the mood dudes!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
- comic_relief
I fail to see how some guys can keep an erection having sex with an ugly girl with day light.
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Who the hell is having sex with ugly chicks??Strelok said:
Tortendieb
Senior Don Juan
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Drdeee
Banned
But most chicks I am with seem to be all insecure and want the lights off.
"I fail to see how some guys can keep an erection having sex with an ugly girl with day light. "
I think you're assuming that all dudes bang ugly chicks? Because that's not the case if so. Why would you **** one peroid is the better question.
Diaforetikos said:
According to many american users of this forum the average american girl is fat, according to those same users if you're not a so called "alpha" you dont have the first share therefore you're having sex with average girls that as previously said are fat.joverby said:
However I do realize this is the internet where every guy is 6'2 tall muscular millionaire, so its believable that no one here is having sex with ugly girls.
In fact I would dare to say that ugly girls are an invention of media just like the poor people.
/sarcasm mode off
What are you even talking about?Strelok said:
So let's get this straight you are making an opinion off of what you read from(jaded) people here and generalizing not only every American female but every dude on here, saying it's impossible for them to be good looking / attract good looking girls.
Okay, so we have two different generalizations going on and some black&white thinking saying it has to be one extreme or the other. That's why there is the HB(X) scale. Some girls are 7's some are 5's some are 9's etc.
Quit generalizing and the black and white thinking. It's not good. I happen to NOT have sex with ugly girls, sorry if you do, but not everyone does.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
5string
Master Don Juan
CuriousGirl
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.