"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
light on or off during sex?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
w/ candles lit
or a lava lamp
w/ some theivery corp. tunez \\ u gotta set the mood dudes!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
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I fail to see how some guys can keep an erection having sex with an ugly girl with day light.
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Who the hell is having sex with ugly chicks??Strelok said:
Tortendieb
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Drdeee
Banned
But most chicks I am with seem to be all insecure and want the lights off.
"I fail to see how some guys can keep an erection having sex with an ugly girl with day light. "
I think you're assuming that all dudes bang ugly chicks? Because that's not the case if so. Why would you **** one peroid is the better question.
Diaforetikos said:
According to many american users of this forum the average american girl is fat, according to those same users if you're not a so called "alpha" you dont have the first share therefore you're having sex with average girls that as previously said are fat.joverby said:
However I do realize this is the internet where every guy is 6'2 tall muscular millionaire, so its believable that no one here is having sex with ugly girls.
In fact I would dare to say that ugly girls are an invention of media just like the poor people.
/sarcasm mode off
What are you even talking about?Strelok said:
So let's get this straight you are making an opinion off of what you read from(jaded) people here and generalizing not only every American female but every dude on here, saying it's impossible for them to be good looking / attract good looking girls.
Okay, so we have two different generalizations going on and some black&white thinking saying it has to be one extreme or the other. That's why there is the HB(X) scale. Some girls are 7's some are 5's some are 9's etc.
Quit generalizing and the black and white thinking. It's not good. I happen to NOT have sex with ugly girls, sorry if you do, but not everyone does.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
5string
Master Don Juan
CuriousGirl
Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.