"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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life went from bad to awsome =]

Imohtep

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alright so my life pretty much sucked like a week or 2 ago...I had lost most of my friends and i was still single....but the day after i was introduced to this site, i made a whole bunch of new friends AND about a week and a half later, I have a girlfriend =] just wanted to thank you guys for this site and all the tips it's givin me, my life is now better and it's all thanks to this site and the motivation it gave me =]
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ligyron

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Thank yourself, not the site
 

KontrollerX

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Hmmm, sounds like a random life occurence moreso than this site helping ya.

Regardless congrats man.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah man you probably found one or two answers that were essential for you to rise above.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sandman6991

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That's wonderful!

But your life's happiness should not come from a girl...don't depend on others for happiness, look to yourself!

Great job with the girlfriend and friends!
 
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