"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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life went from bad to awsome =]

Imohtep

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alright so my life pretty much sucked like a week or 2 ago...I had lost most of my friends and i was still single....but the day after i was introduced to this site, i made a whole bunch of new friends AND about a week and a half later, I have a girlfriend =] just wanted to thank you guys for this site and all the tips it's givin me, my life is now better and it's all thanks to this site and the motivation it gave me =]
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ligyron

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Thank yourself, not the site
 

KontrollerX

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Hmmm, sounds like a random life occurence moreso than this site helping ya.

Regardless congrats man.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah man you probably found one or two answers that were essential for you to rise above.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sandman6991

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That's wonderful!

But your life's happiness should not come from a girl...don't depend on others for happiness, look to yourself!

Great job with the girlfriend and friends!
 
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