"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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life went from bad to awsome =]

Imohtep

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alright so my life pretty much sucked like a week or 2 ago...I had lost most of my friends and i was still single....but the day after i was introduced to this site, i made a whole bunch of new friends AND about a week and a half later, I have a girlfriend =] just wanted to thank you guys for this site and all the tips it's givin me, my life is now better and it's all thanks to this site and the motivation it gave me =]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ligyron

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Thank yourself, not the site
 

KontrollerX

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Hmmm, sounds like a random life occurence moreso than this site helping ya.

Regardless congrats man.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah man you probably found one or two answers that were essential for you to rise above.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sandman6991

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That's wonderful!

But your life's happiness should not come from a girl...don't depend on others for happiness, look to yourself!

Great job with the girlfriend and friends!
 
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