"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Life Resolutions ITT (SET GOALS)

Legday

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everyone make one resolution:

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For me:

By this time next year I will have done two of the following three things:

Kissed a girl
Had a gf
gone to a college party
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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narcissist

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weigh 175 lbs 6% bf

sleep with 15 girls this year

4.0 gpa

read a new book per month

vastly expand my social skills/social proof/social circle
 

noheroes

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I had 17 girls in bed last year, after three in my entire life previously. I'd like to match that number this year, but up the quality.

Also dig deeper into my own neediness and avoidance of rejection. So much work still to do...
 

TheException

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Having goals are excellent and a MUST for any real "elite male". I have a whole notebook where I write down every goal that I want to achieve. Some are long term, some are short term.
 
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