"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Life Resolutions ITT (SET GOALS)

Legday

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everyone make one resolution:

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For me:

By this time next year I will have done two of the following three things:

Kissed a girl
Had a gf
gone to a college party
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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narcissist

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weigh 175 lbs 6% bf

sleep with 15 girls this year

4.0 gpa

read a new book per month

vastly expand my social skills/social proof/social circle
 

noheroes

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I had 17 girls in bed last year, after three in my entire life previously. I'd like to match that number this year, but up the quality.

Also dig deeper into my own neediness and avoidance of rejection. So much work still to do...
 

TheException

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Having goals are excellent and a MUST for any real "elite male". I have a whole notebook where I write down every goal that I want to achieve. Some are long term, some are short term.
 
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