"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Life Resolutions ITT (SET GOALS)

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Legday

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everyone make one resolution:

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For me:

By this time next year I will have done two of the following three things:

Kissed a girl
Had a gf
gone to a college party
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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weigh 175 lbs 6% bf

sleep with 15 girls this year

4.0 gpa

read a new book per month

vastly expand my social skills/social proof/social circle
 
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I had 17 girls in bed last year, after three in my entire life previously. I'd like to match that number this year, but up the quality.

Also dig deeper into my own neediness and avoidance of rejection. So much work still to do...
 
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Having goals are excellent and a MUST for any real "elite male". I have a whole notebook where I write down every goal that I want to achieve. Some are long term, some are short term.
 
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