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Don Juan
thanks for the help.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
life is kicking my ass
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
going after women aint the thing to do in your situation. How about going to some kind of hobby that involves physical exerti0n and other males? Like a sport where you can release your stress and have fun with other males in a friendly way. right now it sounds like you are ostrachised from the people who you liked the most, so you need a friend, not a party or a quick fix of pvssy
catch
Senior Don Juan
hey man,
so you feel like you have the blues huh? you know i wonder and you may wonder also, just how the word "blues"
came to be used for feeling down. and just how what shade of blue is the blues?
is it a dark blue or a light blue or does it depend on
how you feel?
and why blue and not some other color?
well maybe you can find some meaning in all this by noticing
that blue is the color of a clear blue sky,
maybe the blues
is sort of a piece of the clear blue sky that fell out
of the clear blue sky and just needs to be replaced,
put back up there. maybe why the blues you have
feels bad is because it is out of place.
and you can imagine getting this blue and looking up high into the clear blue sky, feeling the difference
and notice how this sky seems infinite and really feel
the infinite openness and just maybe a piece is missing,
the blues you have,
so you just put this piece of blues back up where it really belongs,
within the infinite.
see this to make the clear blue complete and infinite without end. now how does the clear blue sky feel,
as you do now aswell?
notice the ideas and feeling that now come to you out of the clear blue sky. and how you can use these now.
so cheer up ok...
catch
so you feel like you have the blues huh? you know i wonder and you may wonder also, just how the word "blues"
came to be used for feeling down. and just how what shade of blue is the blues?
is it a dark blue or a light blue or does it depend on
how you feel?
and why blue and not some other color?
well maybe you can find some meaning in all this by noticing
that blue is the color of a clear blue sky,
maybe the blues
is sort of a piece of the clear blue sky that fell out
of the clear blue sky and just needs to be replaced,
put back up there. maybe why the blues you have
feels bad is because it is out of place.
and you can imagine getting this blue and looking up high into the clear blue sky, feeling the difference
and notice how this sky seems infinite and really feel
the infinite openness and just maybe a piece is missing,
the blues you have,
so you just put this piece of blues back up where it really belongs,
within the infinite.
see this to make the clear blue complete and infinite without end. now how does the clear blue sky feel,
as you do now aswell?
notice the ideas and feeling that now come to you out of the clear blue sky. and how you can use these now.
so cheer up ok...
catch
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.