imnexthere
Don Juan
thanks for the help.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
life is kicking my ass
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
going after women aint the thing to do in your situation. How about going to some kind of hobby that involves physical exerti0n and other males? Like a sport where you can release your stress and have fun with other males in a friendly way. right now it sounds like you are ostrachised from the people who you liked the most, so you need a friend, not a party or a quick fix of pvssy
catch
Senior Don Juan
hey man,
so you feel like you have the blues huh? you know i wonder and you may wonder also, just how the word "blues"
came to be used for feeling down. and just how what shade of blue is the blues?
is it a dark blue or a light blue or does it depend on
how you feel?
and why blue and not some other color?
well maybe you can find some meaning in all this by noticing
that blue is the color of a clear blue sky,
maybe the blues
is sort of a piece of the clear blue sky that fell out
of the clear blue sky and just needs to be replaced,
put back up there. maybe why the blues you have
feels bad is because it is out of place.
and you can imagine getting this blue and looking up high into the clear blue sky, feeling the difference
and notice how this sky seems infinite and really feel
the infinite openness and just maybe a piece is missing,
the blues you have,
so you just put this piece of blues back up where it really belongs,
within the infinite.
see this to make the clear blue complete and infinite without end. now how does the clear blue sky feel,
as you do now aswell?
notice the ideas and feeling that now come to you out of the clear blue sky. and how you can use these now.
so cheer up ok...
catch
so you feel like you have the blues huh? you know i wonder and you may wonder also, just how the word "blues"
came to be used for feeling down. and just how what shade of blue is the blues?
is it a dark blue or a light blue or does it depend on
how you feel?
and why blue and not some other color?
well maybe you can find some meaning in all this by noticing
that blue is the color of a clear blue sky,
maybe the blues
is sort of a piece of the clear blue sky that fell out
of the clear blue sky and just needs to be replaced,
put back up there. maybe why the blues you have
feels bad is because it is out of place.
and you can imagine getting this blue and looking up high into the clear blue sky, feeling the difference
and notice how this sky seems infinite and really feel
the infinite openness and just maybe a piece is missing,
the blues you have,
so you just put this piece of blues back up where it really belongs,
within the infinite.
see this to make the clear blue complete and infinite without end. now how does the clear blue sky feel,
as you do now aswell?
notice the ideas and feeling that now come to you out of the clear blue sky. and how you can use these now.
so cheer up ok...
catch
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.