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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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PhatE1vis

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One of my new year's resolutions is to get life insurance this year. Part of the testing is a measurement of your BMI.

I'm currently 180 pounds at 5'9 and about 11% body fat. However, that puts me in the overweight category. So much for the benefits of lifting and good health!

To get my BMI in the normal range, I need to drop about 12 pounds. I can easily do this in about 2 months by not eating and working out less, but I'll feel and look like crap.

Is it worth destroying my gains to get a lower premium? Has anyone else here dealt with this idiotic problem?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you may be worrying for no reason. life insurance testing depends on your age and the amount of insurance you are purchasing. being 33 you may only have to do a telephone interview.

However if you are tested for BMI, your premiums are not adjusted so dramatically that you should be concerning yourself with this.
 
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Can you not prove to them somehow that you are in great shape?

Show them a six pack, how can they say you are overweight then?
 
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Quagmire911 said:
Can you not prove to them somehow that you are in great shape?

Show them a six pack, how can they say you are overweight then?
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HAHA! That would be great! I'll show the tester that I can bench 235 and then run a mile under 6.
 
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insurers are all different... if you have trouble with one go to another. you'll find someone who wants to play ball.

check into whether your employer offers group term life insurance -- often much cheaper & fewer restrictions/hassles (depending on your occupation, of course. motocross stunt jumpers need not apply, of course)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got married @ 33, and my wife and I signed up for life insurance right away since she was pregnant (yeah yeah, whatever) -

A lot of it has to do with the insurer, your age, the size of the policy, etc. The first company we tried had me piss into a cup and they also did a swab of my mouth to do an HIV test. We didn't choose them...the 2nd company also
made me piss into a cup, but they drew blood and did all kinds of tests (inc HIV, that's a popular life insurance test) -
 
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