"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was going hard for over a year. When I was working out, I managed to lose 20 lbs of fat, while improving all of my lifts on a regular basis. It was something that I looked forward to. I was constantly getting better. I was setting personal bests in all of my lifts. It was my only real hobby. I took it for granted.

Now I'm in a new city, working a job where I can't even afford a gym membership. Don't take your lifting lightly. Go hard always. You'll miss it when it's gone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can do bodyweight exercise in the meantime. Still, nutrition and rest or duress. Use the money you save from a gym to buy food.
 

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switch said:
yeah,same here. life sucks
You need to stop the negative thought processes switch, it's the only way to recover from depression. Everyday above ground is a good day.

What are you going to do Tyte? Bodyweight stuff? Got enough money to buy a rack/barbell? Kettlebells maybe?
 
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I'll probably just end up doing bodyweight exercises like Create suggested. I'd love to get a bar and a rack, but I don't have enough money or the space to put it. I've been applying to different jobs, so hopefully things will start looking up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've noticed a drop in my libido. The only thing I can think to accredit it to is the lack of olympic plates going up and down. My confidence has taken a hit, too. Goes to show you how much working out can change a person - not just their body, but their entire personality.

Even down to how much I want to impregnate women. It's amazing.

Get at them weights, boys!
 

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Espi said:
I like to do reps on the jump rope then immediately go into pushups. I'll repeat the cycle several times--That workout is simple but it exhausts the hell out of me. I'm usually sweating buckets after 3-4 cycles.
Before I started my workout log and got my gym membership again (sometime last year), this is exactly the sort of thing I'd do to start getting back into it. It really is no joke! Ex..10 pushups, 10 or AMRAP pullups, 100 jumps on the rope, rinse and repeat as desired.
 

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Instead of going for gym membership, you should go for a nature walk every evening or in morning. Sitting in front of T.V or using your personal devices is also a waste of time so use that time and go for a walk.
 
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