You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
many men are now seeking stable relationships while women are now the big players and heart breakers..lolBryce556 said:...She is polyamourous but I want to be monogomans now even though I wouldent nornmally commit to one girl.
yes i saw, and she used to be poly till she fell for me.Aaron B said:Just to confirm, you saw the pregnancy test results from the doctor is that correct?
Also why do you describe her as poly amorous if she doesn't sleep with other men? Does she only sleep with other women?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He doesn't need to be tied down to this woman in order to raise his child, though judging by his latest post, the woman has had a miscarriage. If a man is man enough to have sex with a woman without using contraception then he should be man enough to handle the consequences of his actions. Running away from his responsibilities leaving a woman to raise a child alone and to leave a child without a Father is a despicable thing to do.I'm in the Mood said:Fvck your honor man, do what's best for you. You'll be better off in the long run, don't waste the rest of your life tied down to this chick...