You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
many men are now seeking stable relationships while women are now the big players and heart breakers..lolBryce556 said:...She is polyamourous but I want to be monogomans now even though I wouldent nornmally commit to one girl.
yes i saw, and she used to be poly till she fell for me.Aaron B said:Just to confirm, you saw the pregnancy test results from the doctor is that correct?
Also why do you describe her as poly amorous if she doesn't sleep with other men? Does she only sleep with other women?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
He doesn't need to be tied down to this woman in order to raise his child, though judging by his latest post, the woman has had a miscarriage. If a man is man enough to have sex with a woman without using contraception then he should be man enough to handle the consequences of his actions. Running away from his responsibilities leaving a woman to raise a child alone and to leave a child without a Father is a despicable thing to do.I'm in the Mood said:Fvck your honor man, do what's best for you. You'll be better off in the long run, don't waste the rest of your life tied down to this chick...