"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter Bryce556
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
convenient miscarriage is convenient.Just saying I dont super trust this woman, especially if shes irresponsible enough to send a kid like you on an emotional roller coaster ride like this when she already has two children. She of all people should know better at her age when it comes to sex.
However, good luck...and you better wear protection or drop the woman.:nono:
DonGorgon
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many men are now seeking stable relationships while women are now the big players and heart breakers..lolBryce556 said:
she is presenting her self to you as "polyamourous" cause she does not see you as more than a F and some fun... take the hint and dont mess up a good F buddy situation by chasing her heart and turning all AFC it wont work out well at all..
Bryce556
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yes i saw, and she used to be poly till she fell for me.Aaron B said:
I'm in the Mood
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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He doesn't need to be tied down to this woman in order to raise his child, though judging by his latest post, the woman has had a miscarriage. If a man is man enough to have sex with a woman without using contraception then he should be man enough to handle the consequences of his actions. Running away from his responsibilities leaving a woman to raise a child alone and to leave a child without a Father is a despicable thing to do.I'm in the Mood said:
At the age of 20 there is no excuse for not using a condom or for a female to use a femidom. It's basic common sense. Just think what nasty infections you can pick up from unprotected sex too.
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The more sex partners, the higher the probability of an STD or HIV
Someone kick this dude in the ass, please. :kick: