Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
many men are now seeking stable relationships while women are now the big players and heart breakers..lolBryce556 said:...She is polyamourous but I want to be monogomans now even though I wouldent nornmally commit to one girl.
yes i saw, and she used to be poly till she fell for me.Aaron B said:Just to confirm, you saw the pregnancy test results from the doctor is that correct?
Also why do you describe her as poly amorous if she doesn't sleep with other men? Does she only sleep with other women?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
He doesn't need to be tied down to this woman in order to raise his child, though judging by his latest post, the woman has had a miscarriage. If a man is man enough to have sex with a woman without using contraception then he should be man enough to handle the consequences of his actions. Running away from his responsibilities leaving a woman to raise a child alone and to leave a child without a Father is a despicable thing to do.I'm in the Mood said:Fvck your honor man, do what's best for you. You'll be better off in the long run, don't waste the rest of your life tied down to this chick...