"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lies Single Moms Tell
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
having had a bmama myself, I can see the fake facade of the "loyal gf" mask she puts on whenever getting into new relationships with chodes.
one week she's a raging party sloot getting railed by anything.
next week she gets into a "commited" relationship and acts like the perfect housewife.
very frightening how well women can morph personalities.
one week she's a raging party sloot getting railed by anything.
next week she gets into a "commited" relationship and acts like the perfect housewife.
very frightening how well women can morph personalities.
RickTheToad
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T-Popp is legendary. I wonder if he's speaking from experience?
logicallefty
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Oh ya Popp is one of my favorite red pill Youtubers. I’m surprised he hasn’t been banned yet.
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He says it's because he's obviously displaying a "parody" or "comedy" "show," but his "live from the lair" stories are more serious and so he's not being over-the-top like on the Friday shows. Poor guy's ex-wife killed his dog!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Yes, but I still think he's still getting his member wet. I think he lives in Upstate New York. Come to think of it, a lot of our members seem to be from New York State. Weird.
logicallefty
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I have heard him say both up state New York, and also Michigan. I’ve never been for sure which he films at regularly, or if both.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@backseatjuan That was brilliant
It's their survival programming.
Anytime I see a man with a single mummy, all I can feel is pity for him.
He has no idea what's coming.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
R
Ranger
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After being here even a few months, a man shouldn’t be surprised by any of a woman’s survival strategies.
Some of these strategies may even seem heartless and extremely brutal. To not survive is the same as death and deprivation so yeah, they are playing for real.