Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Skilla_Staz

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Ha i usually do an investigative hand sweep....if i feel the hair...i don't go there
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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1. Saliva makes good lube.

2. Don't ever go down on a girl who has not gone down on you first.

3. Some women are more G-spot oriented; their happy buttons are on the inside and not on the cl!t like most women. You have to move your fingers around inside to make them cvm. When she is on her back, go in and up, and press up against her pelvic bone; this is the 'G-spot' area.
 

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Livinlifehard said:
i ****ing shave down there, so i expect them too also.
so do 90% of gay men. gay men tend to shave lots of places.

men are supposed to be hairy. it is called being masculine.
 

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sparky0000 said:
so do 90% of gay men. gay men tend to shave lots of places.

men are supposed to be hairy. it is called being masculine.
lol, I've just read how most men are insecure over their masculinity. I'll quote a Reader's Digest article.

What lurks behind a man's silent stoic mas? Vulnerability. Most men, experts agree, are far more insecure than they like to admit, or their wives ever guess. "Inside every man is a secret fear that he lacks competence and courage, that he's not as manly as he should be," says Goulston...​

I think living up to these cultural expectations is a bunch s**t. We guys should be ourselves! :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i agree with that article in regards to western men. most are big pusses. just read the posts on this board. the toughest dudes i have ever met are ukraines, russians, and serbians. i am not talking about the wimps who emmigrated to the west. i am talking about the ones who have stayed home and made something of themselves. we could all learn something from them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMvKfm8MIpA
this scary dude may have been a "tyrant"...but he was definitely all man. i speak in the past tense because he went down in a shootout.
 

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sparky0000 said:
so do 90% of gay men. gay men tend to shave lots of places.

men are supposed to be hairy. it is called being masculine.
ok well i dont shave my ****ing arms and legs ok, but i do clean up down there... it would be like a forest down there, i am hairy but i like to keep it in check.

You might call me gay... but it aint going to keep me from ****ing ho's so i dont care.
 
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